The Safe Mail List: Subscribing and Unsubscribing

To subscribe to the list:

  1. Read the rules of the list.
  2. If you wish to participate anonymously on the list, create an account that gives you the level of anonymity you seek. At this point, domestic abuse survivors will be permitted to participate on these lists anonymously. Others interested in anonymous participation should discuss the matter privately with the list-owner before subscribing.
  3. Send an e-mail to the list owner to indicate how you qualify for membership on the list you are subscribing to. Note that this message will not be sent to the list by the list-owner. You will not be subscribed to the list until the list owner knows why you are interested in joining the list.
  4. Use the proper button below join the list(s) you wish to subscribe to.

    If you prefer to use an email interface for subscribing, you can send a message to:

  5. Send back the confirmation message you will receive as per its instructions.

To unsubscribe from the list:

  1. Do not send unsubscribe requests to the list address, even if you just want to ask to be removed.
  2. You can unsubscribe through the homepage for the list. Or you can send email to
  3. Do not send unsubscribe requests to the list address. This is important enough to deserve repeating.

For more information about the list, please contact the list-owner at

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